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35 items BDSM

BDSM test: 35 items, restraint to aftercare

Score thirty-five items — roles, rope, implements, orgasm control, protocol, aftercare — one number each.

Your shelf 35 items

Dominant role
Submissive role
Switching roles
Collar
Leash
Gag
Blindfold
Cuffs
Rope bondage — light
Rope bondage — heavy
Suspension
Chastity device
Orgasm control
Orgasm denial
Forced orgasm
Hand spanking
Paddle
Flogger
Cane
Nipple clamps
Clothespins
Hot wax
Ice play
Biting / scratching
Breath play
Face slapping
Verbal humiliation
Name calling
Begging
Rules and protocol
Punishment / discipline
Service submission
Pet play
Consensual non-consent (pre-negotiated)
Aftercare rituals
Progress 0 / 35 rated
Rate every item — 0 to 100 0 = hard no · 100 = full to the neck
01/35 Dominant role
02/35 Submissive role
03/35 Switching roles
04/35 Collar
05/35 Leash
06/35 Gag
07/35 Blindfold
08/35 Cuffs
09/35 Rope bondage — light
10/35 Rope bondage — heavy
11/35 Suspension
12/35 Chastity device
13/35 Orgasm control
14/35 Orgasm denial
15/35 Forced orgasm
16/35 Hand spanking
17/35 Paddle
18/35 Flogger
19/35 Cane
20/35 Nipple clamps
21/35 Clothespins
22/35 Hot wax
23/35 Ice play
24/35 Biting / scratching
25/35 Breath play
26/35 Face slapping
27/35 Verbal humiliation
28/35 Name calling
29/35 Begging
30/35 Rules and protocol
31/35 Punishment / discipline
32/35 Service submission
33/35 Pet play
34/35 Consensual non-consent (pre-negotiated)
35/35 Aftercare rituals
0 / 35 rated
ABOUT BDSM

You will be rating roles first (dominant, submissive, switching), then gear and restraint: collar, leash, gag, blindfold, cuffs, light rope, heavy rope, suspension, chastity device. Then control — orgasm control, denial, forced orgasm, edging by another name. Then sensation, broken out by what is actually in the hand: hand spanking, paddle, flogger, cane, nipple clamps, clothespins, hot wax, ice, biting and scratching, breath play, face slapping. Then the head-and-mouth end: verbal humiliation, name calling, begging, rules and protocol, punishment, service submission, pet play, consensual non-consent as pre-negotiated roleplay, and aftercare rituals.

Each item takes its own number, 0 to 100, and two things about this set are worth knowing before you start. The three role items are scored independently, so you are never forced to trade one against another — a high dominant and a high submissive can both be true, and switching is its own question rather than the average of the other two. And impact is not one item but five, so if the cane is a no while the flogger is a 90, the shelf will say so. A 0 leaves the vial empty with a red cross, which means that when you finish, the empty vials are a written limits list you never had to draft separately. Above 0 the colour steps through four bands, 1–33, 34–66, 67–99, and 100 for full to the neck, while the fill keeps your exact figure.

The finished shelf saves as one image, and it is a better thing to hand a partner before a scene than a role name is: thirty-five numbers are hard to misread and hard to misquote, where "dom" or "switch" gets filled in by whatever the other person already assumed. Nothing here assigns you a role, a percentage, or a match — the test stops at your numbers. Ratings sit in this browser's localStorage and are not uploaded or synced, so if you want the shelf on another device, the image is what you carry. Many people run Basics alongside this one, since the two shelves save separately and cover different ground.

0A hard no. Not low priority — ruled out, and not up for discussion.
1–33Low. You would go along with it for someone; you would never suggest it.
34–66Middle. Fine when the mood is right, easy to stop, no strong pull either way.
67–99High. Something you want, and would ask for.
100Full to the neck. A standing yes you would arrange your evening around.
Glossary every item explained

What each item means

Not sure how to rate something? Every item here has its own page — what it involves, what people vary on, and anything worth knowing before you try it.

Frequently asked BDSM

Frequently asked

Does this BDSM test tell me if I am a dom, a sub, or a switch?
No. It records how much you want each of thirty-five practices and stops there. No role label, no dominant-to-submissive axis, no archetype at the end. Plenty of people top some activities and bottom others, and a single word flattens that into something they then have to defend. Your shelf shows the actual distribution, which is more use in a negotiation than a term that means something different to everyone.
Does a 0 mean a hard limit?
That is how it reads. A 0 leaves the vial empty and marks it with a red cross, so it is visually distinct from a low but non-zero score at any size. Use it for what you are ruling out, and put lukewarm items at 5 or 15 instead. Anyone reading your shelf can then see refusals and mild curiosity as two different statements, which is the distinction that matters most in this territory.
Can I use my shelf as a limits list with a partner?
Yes, and it is one of the better uses. Both of you take the test, export the images, and read them side by side. The items are in a fixed order, so mismatches are obvious. Nothing generates a compatibility score, which means nothing papers over a 0 sitting opposite a 90. Treat the shelf as the start of a conversation and a record of what was said, not as consent in itself.
Do I need experience with BDSM to take the test?
No. The items ask what you want, not what you have already done. If a practice is unfamiliar, look it up before rating it rather than guessing from the name, since several terms in this area sound harsher or softer than the thing they describe. If you learn what it is and still have no reaction, a low or middle number is an honest placeholder. Keep 0 for actual refusals.
How is this different from BDSM tests that give you percentages?
Those tests interpret your answers and hand back roles and rankings. This one does not interpret anything: one vial per item, a number you chose, and an image of the whole shelf. Continuous 0 to 100 scoring, rather than a few coarse ratings, means the shelf keeps the shape of your preferences instead of rounding them off. If you want to be told what you are, this is the wrong tool.
Does it cover both giving and receiving?
Each item is one vial with one number, so where a practice reads differently depending on which side you are on, rate the side that applies to you and say which when you share it. If you want both directions on the record, build a Freestyle shelf and write the items yourself, one per direction. The fixed list stays fixed so that two shelves from this test can be compared item by item.
Is aftercare included in the BDSM test?
Yes. Aftercare is part of the item set rather than an afterthought appended to it, and it rates the same way as everything else, from 0 to 100. That lets you show it as a requirement rather than a nicety, since a full vial next to a scene item makes a specific point. People assume their aftercare needs are obvious, then discover a partner's are different.
Is taking a BDSM test online discreet?
There is no account, no email, and no server storing answers, so no record of your ratings exists anywhere except the browser you used. They live in localStorage on that device and disappear when you clear site data. Nothing is uploaded, so nothing can be breached, sold, or mailed to you later as a helpful reminder. The only copy that can travel is an image you export and share yourself.
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