Thirty-five everyday items — kissing, oral, toys, positions, light kink — and one number from you on each.
The thirty-five items here are the ordinary range: making out, deep and neck kissing, massage, dirty talk, sexting, sending and receiving nudes, mutual masturbation, fingering and handjobs, oral, 69, face sitting, vaginal and anal sex, condomless sex, finishing inside, facials, swallowing, vibrators, dildos, butt plugs, lingerie, blindfolds, light restraint, spanking, hair pulling, light choking, edging, multiple rounds, shower sex, morning sex, and filming yourselves. Nothing on the shelf needs a specialist vocabulary, which is why this is the set to take first if you want a picture of your tastes before deciding whether the BDSM, Sapphic, or MM shelves are worth your time.
You get one slider per item and the vial above it fills as you drag, live, with nothing to submit. Giving and receiving are split into separate items for fingering, handjobs, and oral, so you can put an 85 on being on the receiving end and a 15 on doing it without the two flattening into one lukewarm answer. The ✕ beside a slider sets that item to 0 in one tap: the vial stays empty and takes a red cross, which reads as a hard limit rather than a low score. Everything above 0 falls into one of four colour bands (1–33, 34–66, 67–99, and 100 for a vial filled to the neck), so the whole shelf stays readable at thumbnail size while the fill height keeps the exact number you chose.
Once every item has a number, Save draws the shelf on your device as one image — to post, to send someone before a first night, or to keep and compare against next year's. Because Basics covers the common ground, it is the shelf people stack the others on top of: take BDSM, Sapphic, or MM afterwards and it saves as its own separate shelf, which is what makes two people's shelves comparable side by side. Your ratings live in this browser's localStorage, so there is no account, nothing is uploaded, and they will not show up on your phone. Nothing at the end tells you what type you are; what the shelf means is yours to decide.
Not sure how to rate something? Every item here has its own page — what it involves, what people vary on, and anything worth knowing before you try it.
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